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Tough Talks, Super Scripts Episodes

June 28, 2022

Sex, Gender, Expression, Orientation & Showing Up for Your Child's Jo…

Episode 42 is all about fundamental LGBTQ concepts, and ways we can support our kids and others who may be on their own journey, discovering who they are. Elaine Farris joins host Carmelita (Cat) Tiu and shares: What the defi...

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June 21, 2022

Vulnerable Connection, Coping, and 3 Q's to Ask Your Kids Daily // wi…

In Episode 41 of Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them , Cai Graham chats with host Carmelita (Cat) Tiu about connecting with our tweens and teens, and coping. Some highlights: The importance of being vulnerable in front of their ki...

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June 14, 2022

Self Harm: What It Is, Why It Happens & How to Respond // with Cai Gr…

Self-Harm and kids. What parent isn’t struck with anxiety when they think of their child contemplating self harm? What leads to self-harm becoming an option? (Warning: this episode discusses self-harm from an educational per...

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May 31, 2022

Sex Talk(s): How to Have Them and Overcome the Awkward // with Sarah …

Ok, who of us hasn’t cringed a little bit, thinking about "having the talk" with your kids? Why does this awkwardness exist, and can we make it less awkward for our kids, so there’s a healthier dialogue about sex and …

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May 24, 2022

Diet Culture (Pt 2) - Tough Truths, Tips & Takeaways // with Debbie S…

What woman hasn’t disliked part of her body, or all of her body, at some point in her life? That is a problem. Diet culture, thin ideals, and ever-changing and unattainable beauty standards – these are self-esteem sabotaging ...

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May 17, 2022

Defying Diet Culture & Making Peace With Your Body // with Debbie Sar…

What woman hasn’t disliked part of her body, or all of her body, at some point in her life? That is a problem. Diet culture, thin ideals, and ever-changing and unattainable beauty standards – these are self-esteem sabotaging ...

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May 3, 2022

Emotional Suppression & How to Create a Safe Space for Your Kids to O…

If you’re like me, you believe on some gut level that burying and ignoring your emotions isn’t healthy - and the research continues to back that. A study from the University of Texas found that when we avoid our emotions, …

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April 26, 2022

Sexual Assault: Creating a Dialogue + 7 Phrases to Say to Our Girls /…

April is sexual assault awareness month -- a reminder to acknowledge and support survivors, advocate for further awareness, and educate ourselves and our kids. While we know what sexual assault is on some visceral level, I wa...

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Jan. 25, 2022

Girls and Eating Disorders...and Moms // with Ashley Carpentier

Ashley Carpentier shares her insights and advice for parents when it comes to eating disorders, body image, healthy relationships with food, self talk, and role modeling. Ashley covers: Myths about eating disorders Signs of a...

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Dec. 7, 2021

From Bullied to Brave & Bold // with Aime Hutton

Bullying can take many forms -- and we’re all too aware of the damage it can cause. In this episode, hot Carmelita Tiu chats with coach, mentor, Youth Diversity Advisor, writer and speaker, Aime Hutton about how she survived...

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Oct. 26, 2021

Freedom, Responsibility & Trust in Tough Times // with Cheryl Spaldin…

What if your daughter decided to move out at 16? Our first “mom who’s been there” guest is Cheryl Spalding, a midlife empowerment coach. Now a mom to two daughters in their 20’s, Cheryl and host Carmelita Tiu talk about …

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Sept. 21, 2021

How to Get Kids to Open Up // by Ezza Mustaffa

Getting your tween or teen to talk to you can be notoriously difficult. We’re all used to one-word answers and hearing “fine” when we ask how they’re doing. In this episode, host Carmelita Tiu reads "How to Get Kids to …

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